Since the start of the pandemic, most of us have had to work within the four walls of our homes. This could have caused our personal development to be relegated to the background. My savior during the pandemic has been the weekly public speaking meetings at my public speaking club in Bengaluru.
Contrary to popular belief, online public speaking events are actually effective.
“Why speak in public online? Wouldn’t it be wise to wait a few months until the pandemic subsides?” I wondered.
Looking back, I’m glad I went against my initial impulse and followed in the footsteps of the folks at my public speaking club. As his mission was to empower individuals to become better speakers and leaders, I was able to practice this in a supportive and positive atmosphere.
“When one door closes, another opens” describes what online public speaking events have looked like since the start of the pandemic. When it was impossible to meet physically, we opened up to all regions of the country. We were also able to connect with one of over 16,200 clubs around the world. As a result, we were able to organize joint global meetings.
How effective is it?
Saying the phrase “I have a dream” in front of a live audience can be exciting. But imagine doing the same in front of a larger and more diverse audience, with the only catch being online meetings.
The scenario above provides insight into the fact that there must be a trade-off, of some form, regardless of the outcome chosen.
In the context of online public speaking, I have been able to challenge myself by speaking up and engaging a diverse audience with varying needs.
“Roses are red, violets are blue, there’s an arranged marriage waiting for you” is a saying that might make Indian audiences laugh, given the popularity of arranged marriages in the country.
On the contrary, the joke might not appeal to a wider and diverse audience, given that people from most countries might not know about the popularity of arranged marriages in India.
Instead, the joke can be “Roses are red, violets are blue. You’re farting like a train, but I love you. That might spark widespread laughter. That level of consideration has made each of us speakers and more versatile leaders.
Expect! i think i know you
Have you met any of your friends from the past? Whether the answer is yes or no, the moment will be surprising, memorable and unforgettable.
As was the case with our club. A few past members have joined the club, despite their varying geographic locations.
Two individuals, Ashwin Sasidharan from Kerala and Bidhu Das from Delhi jumped at the chance to join the club. Both were in Bengaluru until they had to move due to circumstances.
Bidhu said: “The club contacted me and told me that they were going to have meetings on Zoom. I was happy to find the people who were part of my initial improvement.
A proud member for over four years, Deepa Sampath Kumar added, “It was a joy to see Bidhu and Ashwin join the club. I have coordinated many programs with Ashwin of which I am very proud.
Although their online presence was not lasting, it offered a reunion that otherwise would not have happened.
Explore before you say “No”
As a second generation entrepreneur, I felt the need to possess immense public speaking and leadership ability to manage day-to-day operations, in the same vein as my mother, a wealth manager in Bengaluru , Since twenty years. Although it was difficult to lead from the front, public speaking gave me a chance to fail, recover and succeed.
With the rumor circulating that online public speaking can lack power, I’d like to bust the myth with something my mentor and friend Deepa said.
“Try and explore it before you say no.”